Category Archives: Healthy Youth Development

The Beauty of Cross-Cultural Friendships: Expanding Horizons & Building Bridges

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Friendships that bridge different cultures, languages, and backgrounds offer a unique and enriching perspective on the world. When we connect with people who have different life experiences, we expand our understanding, challenge stereotypes, and develop greater empathy. Learning about another person’s traditions, beliefs, and customs firsthand allows us to see the world from a more inclusive and informed perspective. These friendships break down barriers and foster global awareness, making us more adaptable and open-minded individuals.

Cross-cultural and bilingual friendships also provide tangible cognitive and linguistic benefits. Engaging with a friend who speaks another language or comes from a different background naturally enhances our communication skills and deepens our cultural intelligence. Exposure to different languages, even informally, can improve memory, problem-solving skills, and creativity. Additionally, bilingual friendships can encourage us to learn a new language, making us more effective communicators and strengthening connections across diverse communities.

Beyond personal growth, bicultural and multilingual friendships create stronger, more inclusive communities. These friendships promote cross-cultural appreciation and foster an environment of mutual respect and understanding. In an increasingly interconnected world, the ability to navigate cultural differences with empathy and curiosity is invaluable. By embracing friendships that span cultural and linguistic boundaries, we build bridges instead of walls, fostering a world that thrives on diversity, connection, and shared humanity.

Jarrelle ( 杰遨 ）Jieao

Here Are 4 Ways to Cope With Existential Dread

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Late at night, when the world quiets down, existential dread can creep in—the unsettling fear of uncertainty, of not knowing if you’re on the right path or if things will ever get better. It thrives in moments of doubt, feeding on the pressure to have everything figured out. But the truth is, no one does. Life isn’t a straight path; it’s a journey full of twists, detours, and discoveries. Instead of fearing the unknown, try embracing it. Ground yourself in the present, acknowledge your thoughts without judgment, and remember that uncertainty isn’t failure—it’s possibility. You are not lost; you are simply becoming.

Millennials and Zoomers (aka Gen-Z) May Be Feeling Existential Dread the Most

Existential dread is a common experience, especially among younger generations navigating an uncertain world. While feelings of stagnation and questioning one’s purpose can arise at any age, Millennials and Gen Z face unique challenges that contribute to this sense of unease. Economic instability, social media comparisons, and the pressure to find meaning in a fast-paced, ever-changing society all add to the weight of uncertainty. As traditional milestones become less linear, many struggle with doubts about where they should be in life, leading to a pervasive sense of anxiety about the future.

  • Climate anxiety: A 2021 report by the Pew Research Center found that Gen Z and Millennials are more engaged in addressing climate change than Gen X and Boomers. They are actively taking action, speaking about climate issues, and engaging with social media content about the changing planet at a higher rate than older generations. In other words, these generations are carrying the emotional burden of our planet’s uncertain future more than anyone else.
  • Financial stress: The anxiety doesn’t stop with climate change—Millennials alone hold nearly a third of all student loan debt, creating immense financial pressure. To cope with this stress, many young people turn to substances, smoking, and other unhealthy coping mechanisms, further impacting their well-being.
  • Poor mental health overall: When it comes to overall mental health, Gen Z has been found to have the poorest mental health outcomes compared to other generations. According to the American Psychological Association, both Gen Z and Millennials are also more likely to seek mental health treatment, highlighting the growing emotional and psychological strain these generations face.

There’s much that is outside of our control, but focusing on what you can control may be the relief your mind needs right now.

Here are some small ways to make a positive impact in your community:

  • Stock up on water and granola bars at the grocery store and distribute them to unhoused individuals in your area.
  • Volunteer at an organization that aligns with the change you want to see in the world.

If your existential dread stems from loneliness, consider these steps:

  • Sign up for a ceramics class or another hobby-based activity.
  • Attend a local event to meet new people.
  • Invite a new coworker out to lunch.

While existential dread can feel overwhelming, shifting your focus to what you can control can make a world of difference. Whether it’s giving back to your community, fostering new connections, or engaging in activities that bring you joy, small, intentional actions can help ground you in the present and remind you of your own agency. The world may be uncertain, but by taking steps toward positive change—both for yourself and those around you—you can cultivate a sense of purpose, connection, and hope in the midst of the unknown.

Reference: https://www.verywellmind.com/coping-with-existential-dread-7972035

Bullying

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The CDC defines bullying as unwanted aggressive behavior by youth or groups of youths, excluding siblings or current dating partners, that involves a power imbalance and is repeated or highly likely to be repeated. Bullying can cause harm or distress to victims, whether physical, psychological, social, or educational. It takes many forms, including physical aggression like hitting or tripping, verbal attacks such as name-calling or teasing, relational bullying like spreading rumors or exclusion, and damage to property. With the rise of technology, bullying now extends to cyberbullying, where harmful behaviors occur online. Youth can find themselves as perpetrators, victims, or both, highlighting the complex dynamics of bullying and its far-reaching impact.

Key Facts About Bullying in the United States

Bullying as an Adverse Childhood Experience: Bullying negatively impacts all youth involved, including victims, perpetrators, and bystanders.

Prevalence of Bullying:

  • About 1 in 5 high school students reported being bullied on school property in the past year.
  • Over 1 in 6 high school students reported experiencing electronic bullying via texting or social media.

Disparities in Bullying:

  • Female students are more likely than male students to experience both in-person and electronic bullying.
  • LGBTQ+ students are at higher risk of being bullied compared to their cisgender, heterosexual peers.
  • Asian and Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander students report lower rates of school bullying compared to Hispanic, White, and Multiracial students. Native Hawaiian or Pacific Islander students also experience lower rates of electronic bullying compared to most other racial/ethnic groups.

Bullying as a Discipline Issue:

  • National surveys indicate bullying occurs weekly in 28% of middle schools, 15% of high schools, and 10% of elementary schools.
  • Cyberbullying is reported weekly by 37% of middle schools, 25% of high schools, and 6% of elementary schools.

Bullying is a pervasive issue with serious consequences for all involved, but it can be addressed through awareness, prevention, and intervention. Key signs of bullying include unexplained injuries, lost or damaged belongings, changes in eating or sleeping habits, withdrawal from friends or activities, and declining academic performance. Preventing bullying requires fostering a positive, inclusive environment where differences are celebrated, and open communication is encouraged. Peers can stand up for victims by showing support and reporting incidents, while adults and school staff must remain vigilant, establish clear anti-bullying policies, and provide safe spaces for students to seek help. By working together, communities can create a culture of respect and kindness, ensuring every child feels safe and valued.

Reference:https://www.cdc.gov/youth-violence/about/about-bullying.html

Narratives of Healing: How Our Elders Guide Us Beyond Borders

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As a Black Buddhist who grew up studying Buddhism, classical Chinese music, and the art of Japanese Bonsai, I’ve often reflected on what it means to embrace traditions that are not rooted in my ancestry. At first, I felt like an outsider, but as I listened to the stories of my elders, I began to see that expression isn’t confined to bloodlines or geography. These stories with struggle, resilience, and love—are more than personal memories; they are bridges. They connect us to our roots, to our shared humanity, and to a deeper understanding of who we are. Listening to our elders allows us to step beyond limits, and into the universal truths that bind us all.

Our elders carry within them the echoes of countless generations, each story a thread in the fabric of our collective being. When I sat with my grandparents and listened to their stories of living in the south, the KKK, the fight for freedom, perseverance, and triumph, I realized these narratives were not just about them—they were about me, too. Their resilience became a lens through which I could make sense of my bicultural journey, blending my own me-ness with diverse philosophies and arts. The wisdom of our elders reminds us that culture is not a static inheritance but a living and breathing dialogue. By honoring their experiences, we create space for healing and understanding, for ourselves and for the communities we touch.

In Buddhism, we often speak of transcending the conventional world, but this does not mean abandoning it—it means transforming it. The stories of our elders are vehicles for that transformation. They teach us compassion, resilience, and interconnectedness, serving as a guide for navigating life’s complexities. When we take the time to listen deeply, we honor their sacrifices and create a legacy of healing for future generations. Their wisdom invites us to bridge divides, to embrace diversity, and to build communities rooted in love and understanding. In this way, the stories of the past become seeds of a more harmonious future.

Jarrelle ( Jie ao ) Barton

Harmony Between Worlds: A Black Buddhist Artist’s Journey

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Living as a Black Buddhist artist immersed in a bicultural experience is a profound act of self-discovery. My heritage as a Black individual expresses resilience, creativity, and community, while my Buddhist practice offers a framework for mindfulness, compassion, and balance. These two identities do not simply coexist—they enrich and inform each other, creating a unique lens through which I experience this world. Through the teachings of lord Buddha, I’ve come to understand my cultural roots not as a separate identity but as a path in which I cultivate dharma..

As an artist, the bicultural experience manifests in the stories I tell and the mediums I use to tell them. My work is a reflection of both celebration and introspection, merging the rhythms of my heritage with the contemplative silence of my Buddhist practice. Whether through the meditative pluck of the Guzheng or the quiet resilience embedded in my poems, I strive to create art that speaks to the shared humanity between cultures. This process has taught me that self-cultivation is not about abandoning one identity to embrace another but about finding harmony in the tension, allowing each aspect of myself to bloom.

Self-cultivation within this bicultural space is an ongoing practice of loving-kindness toward myself and others. It is about embracing the complexities of my identity without judgment, cultivating wisdom through the lessons of my ancestors, and staying grounded in the present moment. As a Black Buddhist, I see my journey not only as personal liberation but also as a call to inspire others in my community to explore the depths of their identities with courage and compassion. Together, we can honor the beauty of our roots while forging new paths of creativity and cultivation.

Jarrelle (杰遨) Jieao

Youth Violence

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Youth violence is a serious issue affecting young people aged 10 to 24, often manifesting through fighting, bullying, weapon threats, and gang-related activities. It not only harms the victims but also impacts offenders and witnesses, creating a ripple effect of trauma and fear in communities. Understanding youth violence means recognizing its multifaceted nature and addressing it as a shared responsibility. Preventative measures, such as fostering safe environments, promoting conflict resolution skills, and offering support to at-risk youth, are essential in breaking the cycle of violence and building a foundation for healthier, more compassionate communities.

Key Facts

Prevalence and Impact:

  • Thousands experience youth violence daily across urban, suburban, rural, and tribal communities.
  • Homicide is the third leading cause of death for young people aged 10-24 and the leading cause of death for non-Hispanic Black or African American youth.
  • Over 800 young people are treated daily in U.S. emergency departments for assault-related injuries.

Disparities in Risk:

  • Sexual minority teens are more likely to face multiple forms of violence than their heterosexual peers.
  • Black or African American youth are at a higher risk of the most physically harmful forms of violence, including homicides and aggravated assaults.

Economic Costs:

  • In 2020, youth homicides and nonfatal physical assaults incurred an estimated $122 billion annually in costs, covering medical care, lost work, and diminished quality of life (excluding criminal justice costs).

Impact of COVID-19:

  • The economic burden of youth violence increased by 17% in 2020 compared to 2019, reflecting the ongoing challenges exacerbated by the pandemic.

Preventing youth violence is a collective effort that begins with understanding the root causes and risk factors that contribute to it. By addressing systemic inequities, such as poverty, residential segregation, and other forms of racism, we can create environments where all young people—especially those from racial and ethnic minority groups—have the opportunity to thrive. Prevention strategies must focus on reducing risk factors, strengthening protective factors, and fostering safe, equitable communities. Supporting youth as they grow into healthy, empowered adults is not just a moral imperative; it is essential for building a future free from violence and filled with opportunity for all.

Reference: https://www.cdc.gov/youth-violence/about/index.html

Living With Existential Depression

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Existential depression is a deeply challenging experience where individuals grapple with finding meaning in their lives and existence itself. This struggle can lead to a lack of motivation in daily life, fixation on thoughts of death and dying, indifference toward the seemingly “unfixable” state of the world, and avoidance of connections with others. While these feelings can be overwhelming, it’s important to remember that existential depression is not a formal diagnosis but rather a way to describe this specific emotional and philosophical struggle.

“Everyone experiences [a level of] existential depression at some point in their lives and it is very common to find it as one moves through the challenges of the maturation process,”- Jed Turnbull, PhD, LCSW, CHT, a licensed social worker, and therapist.

Questions that often spark feelings of existential depression include:

  • What is the meaning of life? 
  • Why is there suffering?
  • Why do people have to die? 
  • Can I make an impact in the world? 
  • Why do bad people go unpunished?
  • Why do good people experience pain? 

Certain life experiences can also act as potential triggers for existential depression, such as:

  • Stressful life events: Situations that cause major upheaval can greatly impact your life. For example, one study notes that cancer patients may question the meaning of life when they realize that death is a very real possibility.
  • Having poor job satisfaction: Research has shown that there’s a relationship between job satisfaction and mental health. So, if you’re dissatisfied with your job you may have poorer mental health. You may also start to wonder what the purpose or point of your job is.
  • Lack of meaningful relationships: Science notes a strong link between healthy social relationships and aspects of our health and wellness.

“In more immediate circumstances, one’s way of expression can be very helpful in alleviating their depressive symptoms,” Turnbull notes. “Journaling or writing, and other abstract ways of self-expression such as art and music, as well as learning something new, can all be ways to decrease depressive symptoms.”-Jed Turnbull, PhD

Experiencing existential depression can be triggered by deep reflections and life events. It’s crucial to prioritize mental health and adopt a healthy lifestyle in response. Taking time to reflect on your well-being and engage in self-care practices can help manage feelings of existential dread and promote a more meaningful and fulfilling life.


照顾好自己是对的。Taking care of yourself is the right thing to do.

Reference: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-existential-depression-5496376

Strings, Stories, and Dumplings: A Cross-Cultural Artistic Journey

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Growing up as a Black artist deeply immersed in AAPI communities, I’ve had the unique privilege of learning from traditions that have enriched my life and artistry. My Chinese godmother from Beijing played a profound role in shaping my understanding of culture through the art of cooking. I still remember standing by her side in the kitchen as she showed me how to wrap dumplings with care, explaining the significance of each ingredient. Her stories about the dishes she grew up with connected me to a heritage that wasn’t my own by birth, but one that became a part of me through shared meals and loving mentorship. The kitchen became a sacred space where culture, history, and love blended together, teaching me the value of preserving traditions.

Another important influence in my life was an elder from the AAPI community who introduced me to the art of guzheng, the Chinese zither. The first time I touched the strings, I felt an immediate connection to its hauntingly beautiful tones and the centuries of history it carried. My teacher’s patience and dedication were inspiring as he guided me through the techniques and the cultural stories behind the music. Through this practice, I not only learned to play an instrument but also became a custodian of an art form that deserves to be celebrated. These experiences instilled in me a deep respect for the ways in which traditional arts can bridge cultural gaps and preserve histories that might otherwise be lost.

As a Black artist based in Minnesota, I’ve seen firsthand how traditional arts can build understanding and nurture creative expression. I encourage Minnesotans to engage more actively with BIPOC art forms, whether it’s attending a local Guzheng performance, joining a cooking workshop led by immigrant elders, or participating in collaborative art projects. By creating spaces where diverse traditions are honored and practiced, we not only preserve cultural legacies but also cultivate a thriving community of creativity and respect. Invest in these traditions, not just for their beauty but for the stories and connections they bring to our lives.

Jarrelle （杰遨 ）Barton

Balancing Two Worlds: Mental Health and the Bicultural Journey

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As a Black man navigating a bicultural identity, my life has often felt like a balancing act. On one hand, there’s the rich heritage of Black culture—our resilience, creativity, and deep sense of community. On the other, there’s the broader world, shaped by systems and norms that weren’t built with us in mind. Growing up, I often felt like I had to adjust who I was depending on where I was and who I was with. That constant adjustment took its toll, leaving me with an unspoken pressure to perform and to prove myself at all times.

The impact of living biculturally is something I didn’t fully understand until I started unpacking it. Therapy wasn’t talked about much in my community growing up, but it became a lifeline for me. It gave me the space to address feelings of invisibility—being overlooked in rooms where my voice and presence should have mattered. Meditation also played a key role in helping me ground myself, allowing me to explore who I am outside the expectations of others. I’ve learned that I don’t have to shrink parts of myself to fit in; my identity is mine to define, and it’s valid in all its complexity.

Healing has come through embracing creative expression and mindfulness. Poetry, music, and meditation have become tools for reflecting on my bicultural identity, allowing me to weave together the richness of my heritage with the realities of the present. Each act of creation—whether a poem, a melody, or a moment of stillness—serves as a bridge, transforming the complexities of living between cultures into something harmonious and inspiring. Sharing my journey through art has sparked meaningful connections with others who see themselves in my work, reminding me that our stories, though unique, often resonate deeply. My bicultural identity is not a burden but a wellspring of inspiration, offering a lens for storytelling that builds understanding, beauty, and connection where cultures meet.

Key Points

  • The mental health struggles of being Black with a bicultural identity
  • The importance of seeking therapy and practicing mindfulness
  • Challenging the stigma around vulnerability
  • Embracing biculturalism as a strength

Quote

“Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.” – James Baldwin

Embracing creativity and mindfulness can transform the challenges of bicultural identity into a source of healing and inspiration. – 拥抱创造力和正念，可以将双文化身份的挑战转化为治愈和灵感的源泉。

Jarrelle ( 杰遨 – Jieao ) Barton

Healing Through Heritage: How BIPOC Creators are Reclaiming Ancestral Narratives

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Art has always been a lifeline for BIPOC creators—a way to reach back across time and reclaim the stories of our ancestors, stories often erased or distorted by colonization and oppression. For many, creating is not just about making something beautiful; it’s a way of finding their place in a lineage, exploring questions of identity, displacement, and belonging. Each brushstroke, verse, or frame becomes a thread in the larger tapestry of our heritage, woven anew for a modern world. This process is deeply personal, a journey of healing and reconnection that carries their roots forward into the future.

We see this vividly in the work of filmmakers like Ava DuVernay and Taika Waititi, who use their art to challenge mainstream narratives and center the voices of their communities. Their films are more than stories—they are acts of cultural preservation and defiance. Similarly, visual artists turn to the symbols and practices of their ancestors, using them to honor their lineage while creating something entirely new. Musicians, too, are keeping traditions alive, blending traditional rhythms and languages with contemporary sounds to craft music that feels both timeless and revolutionary. Their work bridges the gap between past and present, a testament to the resilience and creativity of cultures.

But this creative reclamation isn’t just about preserving the past—it’s about shaping the future. By sharing our heritage through art, we empower our communities, especially younger generations, to see the beauty and strength in their identities. They remind us all that culture isn’t something static or stuck in history—it’s a living, breathing force. It evolves, expands, and takes on new life through the hands of those who dare to remember and reimagine it. Through their work, these creators aren’t just keeping traditions alive—they’re making space for the next chapter to be written.

Jarrelle Barton (杰遨- Jieao)